Always Time for Thanks Giving

20 11 2012

Every time I visit a new country, there is ONE phrase that I always ask to pronounce in the local language. THANK YOU. I find that saying ‘thank you’ to someone in their own language, someone who is helping you, serving you or greeting you  is the least amount of respect I can show.

The reactions I get from this are genuine and appreciative, and it usually creates a much more positive connection than without. In fact, it’s funny to see the surprise, then quickly followed by a smile, on taxi drivers’ faces when I ask. Getting a smile from any taxi driver is a challenge but getting that reception in a foreign land is comforting to me.

Since the end of October to today, I have travelled 18 out of 24 days. I’ve had the opportunity to say ‘thank you’ in:

  • Copenhagen, Denmark = tak
  • Paris, France = merci
  • Brussels & Bruges, Belgium = merci
  • Frankfurt, Germany = danke
  • Geneva, Switzerland = merci
  • And once I even threw in ‘gracias’…although I have no idea why.

I’m sharing this because I am so thankful for the opportunity to travel the world, experience new cultures and connect with new people. I am thankful for a job that affords me this opportunity. I am home now for a couple of weeks and very happy to be sleeping in my own bed. Most of all, I am SO thankful for my family, my son, my love and my friends who are with me when I travel (I give a very genuine thanks to social media for that!) and welcome me with open arms when I return home.

tak | merci | danke | gracias | teşekkür ederim | благодаря | 谢谢| ありがとう | obrigado | ขอขอบคุณคุณ |





Humbled in Haiti

2 09 2012

It was a sunny Tuesday afternoon when a nation crumbled. The streets were crowded with merchants selling their goods to those heading home for the night. At one University, the first session of classes had just released for the day while the second group of students were already on campus. Of those 2,700 students, only 700 survived the 7.0 ricter scale earthquake that shattered the city of Port-au-Prince, Haiti.

More than 300,000 Haitians were trampled to death by the ruins of the city; many more were trapped in the rubble for days and even weeks. The world watched in horror as the dust settled and the total devastation was realized.

The earthquake on January 12, 2010 brought even more chaos to Haiti – already the poorest nation in the western hemisphere; burdened with years of government corruption, immense poverty and overwhelming struggles. It was estimated that nearly 1 million Haitians were left homeless. The world took notice, and many jumped to help those affected recover from the devastation.

In late May of this year, I was so lucky to visit Port-au-Prince on behalf of my company (Solae/DuPont) to see the efforts of our donations along with other organizations like World Soy Foundation (WSF), University of Illinois’ National Soybean Research Laboratory (NSRL) and the Illinois Soybean Association. Together we gathered resources, collected corporate donations and partnered with Food for the Poor to bring soy to many children suffering from the devastation of the earthquake.

Yes, I’m helping to make the tasty soymilk!

Specifically, the joint effort brought soy to a home for disabled children called “Home for the Little Children of Jesus” where 90 mentally and physically challenged children are cared for on a full-time basis, many who are now orphans. Staff members at the home were eager to demonstrate what they have learned, and to offer tastings of their soymilk. I’ll be honest, I was very pleasantly surprised by how great the soymilk tasted!

I truly enjoyed my time in Haiti and would definitely return. Haiti is a nation of beautiful people, who endure and persevere in an environment often overrun with chaos and filth. These photos are just a small sample of what the streets look like.

My very favorite memory of Haiti was my visit to an all girls school. We were honored guests for a lunch celebration. I was so impressed by the behavior of the girls and how they took care of each other. After lunch, a local DJ started playing tunes and the girls went wild. It was so fun to see their beautiful faces full of smiles and laughter while they moved to the music. Seeing their joy in that moment absolutely solidified my love for music and showed how powerful music can be and how essential it is for the human spirit.

Yes, I had to get out there and shake my bon bon!

One thing I will NOT miss about Haiti is the traffic. We want out one day for 3 meetings. I figured we were in our meetings for a total of 3 hours…yet we were gone for 9 hours. That means we spent 6 hours in the car. YIKES, thank God I don’t get car sick!

I hope for a day when Haiti can recover not only from the earthquake, but also from years of corruption and chaos. I hope for a day when tourism is simple, safe, and inviting. The people of Haiti deserve it!





“To Travel is to Live” by Hans Christian Andersen

13 08 2012

Appropriate quote for my first visit to Copenhagen, Denmark. What a goregous city! I only visited for two and half days, and spent most of my time in meetings…however, it doesn’t take much time to see what a special place this is.

My company, now DuPont Nutrition & Health, is newly headquartered here and this was the first of many visits I will make to Copenhagen. I was not disappointed by the cleanliness of the city or the plethora of bicyclists on the road, but I was surprised by the incredible friendliness of every person I met. Not that I had a pre-conceived notion that Danes are not nice… I just didn’t except such warmth from a place that is so far north and known for wicked, cold winters. Funny, that I connected climate with personalities.

While I only walked around one evening (when I snapped up these pics) and soaked in the views from a couple of cab rides, I am most definitely looking forward to returning and fully exploring the city!





Went on vacation and this is what happened…

10 08 2012

Three cars, 16 people (7 of them teenagers), 19 hour drive from St. Louis, Missouri to Owego, New York. Sound like fun? Sound like your ideal, relaxing vacation? It is if you belong to my family! This year, we trekked back home to New York to visit more than 70 members of our family…and what a treat it was!

I don’t know if there’s a more beautiful drive than heading east on Interstate 86 across the Southern Tier of New York. The rolling green hills, subtle valleys and winding road are truly breathtaking. I’ll never get tired of making that drive.

Once we arrived in Owego, recently named the “Coolest Small Town in America,” we explored their downtown shopping area. This is one of my most favorite places. Lots of adorable boutiques with great handmade products such as jewelry and home decorations. One morning, my mother and I enjoyed a spectacular, giant cup of coffee at The Goat Boy Coffee House.

My mom and dad’s families live in the area, so luckily our visits cover both sides. We spent a lovely afternoon at my aunt and uncle’s house where the kids were overjoyed to drive around like maniacs on their “gator.” It’s one of my sons favorite memories and activities of visiting with family, ever since he was a little guy.

We also had perfect timing to be able to stop in to see one of my uncle’s auctions. Visscher Auction & Realty has been running estate auctions across New York and Pennsylvania for more then 35 years. It’s remarkable to hear him speeding through the bidding. Impressive!

The main event of this trip was the annual “Webster Family Reunion” where activities consisted mostly of eating, drinking and laughing…and laughing! It was so great to see all of my cousins kids running around playing kickball or hide and seek…to see new friendships formed and old memories reminisced. A very special thank you goes to my Aunt Cyndi and Uncle Jim who graciously host every year.

The whole St. Louis crew as well as my Aunt Ginny, my cousin Abe, his wife Carla and their daughter Tess. Phew…what a gang!

Last but very not the least, we met with my aunt and cousins for lunch as we headed back toward St. Louis. It was so amazing to see so many family members in just a short period of time, and as always…we did not have nearly enough time!

So, even after another exhausting, 19 hour trip back home, I have to say I can’t wait til next time.

“Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family: Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.”
Jane Howard





Cob Coon Cah!

12 02 2012

That is the phonetic spelling of “Thank you” in Thai, my farewell to Phuket and the wonderful Thai people. I can say that while I had a severe sunburn, had an allergic reaction to something I ate, and had a bad fall getting out of the pool…this was a wonderful week! Really, I mean it!

Where else could I have work meetings poolside or have 2 one hour massage treatments and 2 one hour private yoga sessions all for less than $200. That’s right, amazing! This girl has nothing to complain about.

The following are a series of photos I took at sunset. Since I’m not much of a morning person, I’ve always had a great fondess for beautiful sunsets. It really doesn’t get much better than this.

I have more photos to share but the site is being goofy. Will post later. I’m currently sitting in the Hong Kong International Airport with just 3 more hours til my next flight. I’ve still a long way to go! London then Istanbul then Ankara for 24 hours and then back home. I’m really looking forward to that part.





Ever heard of Lobster City, Thailand?

8 02 2012

Probably not because I just invented it…and I’m the mayor! I broke all sorts of basic rules of traveling to a beach destination. Don’t skip the sunscreen. Don’t forget about the intensity of the sun when you’re close to the equator. Whatever you do, don’t get sunburned on your first day.

Yep, on my first day in Phuket I sped to the amazing beach. I spent 10 minutes in the water. Perfect water, by the way. Warm and cool at the same time. Clear enough to see the color of my toes in neck deep water. Then I spent 20 minutes under the sun while lying on the sand. Apparently, that’s all I need to be a crispy fried critter…30 minutes!

Oh yeah, I broke all those rules AND I’m paying for it! Besides looking like an Oompa Loompa with a bright red/orange face, I’ve had to avoid the sun entirely (mostly by covering as much skin as possible, not so fun in the heat) and I paid $18 for a 6oz. bottle of sun lotion because I need to moisturize my skin. Geez!

I’ve learned my lesson! I have two good friends who are the cutest couple. Through tough lessons, they have agreed to two basic rules. He is responsible for her drinking decisions because she doesn’t know when she’s had enough. While she is responsible for his sunscreen decisions because he doesn’t know when he’s had enough. Clearly I need to have someone else responsible for my sunscreen decisions.

Luckily, the entire week is not entirely ruined. I’m staying at a resort with spa that sees many idiots like myself and offers a special 60 minute treatment for after-sun cooling. Yesterday, I was covered in aloe vera and wrapped up in saran wrap for an hour. Then I had an ice cold towel wrapped around my face. May not sound so appealing but when your skin feels like hot molten lava…it’s incredible! And the treatment seems to be working. While I’m still neon red, I don’t hurt nearly as much. I’m going to try yoga on the beach tomorrow so hopefully as will be well after today.

Best Regards,
Mayor Oompa Loompa from Lobster City

NOTE: There was no alteration of colors in these photos. Only difference is white eyebrows and green hair!





Hello! Phuket, Thailand

5 02 2012

Just got to my room, home for the next 5 days at the Renaissance Phuket Resort & Spa. Had a super early morning, left hotel in Hong Kong at 4am. Severely miscalculated the time changes and thought I had a full day in Hong Kong to explore. I was actually only there for 12 hours. So, I only saw the city in the dark. I can say it’s quite beautiful all lit up at night. Hong Kong is definitely a city I’d like to explore in the future. One place I had all picked out to visit was The Shoe Factory…25,000 square feet of shoes!!!! They boast over 200 international brands of shoes. I would have done some serious damage there!

I’m looking forward to exploring Phuket. I have a great view from my room, no ocean but the palm trees do just fine. After unpacking & hitting the gym, plan to take a stroll on the beach. Work starts tomorrow. Life is good!

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Sister Sojourn (2011): Part 1

8 07 2011

Sojourn (n. a temporary stay, v. to stay for a time in a place; live temporarily)

Traveling around the world is an exciting journey of discovery. Awe-inspiring sites, new smells, strange languages…a whole host of wonderment! But, traveling with loved ones makes the experience infinitely better. Having someone to share the moment with makes the journey last for years and years to come. Who better to sojourn with then your very favorite people in the world?

For me, those favorite people are my two sisters. Two amazing women who make me smile, laugh, spit my food across the table, and so on! They frustrate me, confound me and they call me on my bullshit, everytime. And we have fun every minute we’re together, no matter where we are. In fact, I was once quoted as saying “Nothing can stop us from having fun. Hell, we’d have fun in a jail cell.” Let’s hope we never test that theory.

Two of my more favorite trips were with one of my sisters. In fact, the location of these trips are hands down two of my favorite places in the whole world – Ireland and Pacific Coast in Washington State. I wonder if going there with them is what made these places so special to me. No doubt.

In age order - Savannah, Amber and Natasha

In 2006, my youngest sister Savannah and I travelled to southern Ireland. It was a crazy adventure. We rented a car, and I drove from Shannon to Cork around the southern coast up to Galway. While driving was daring, staying in Youth Hostels made for very interesting encounters and memories. From our old lady stalker to the car boot in Galway to Thomas on the Cliffs of Mohr, we have so many wonderful memories.

Savannah and I at Blarney Castle

In 2010, my middle sister Amber and I travelled to Seattle, Pacific coast and Vancouver for the 2010 Winter Olympics games. Again, another amazing adventure. We stayed in the most beautiful place I’ve ever seen, at Kalaloch Lodge where there was no cell signal, no internet and no television. Awesome! We lived it up in Vancouver with our friend Howard and enjoyed every minute of revellry the Olympics have to offer. And last, we met Bon Jovi in Seattle. Really, a girl can’t complain.

Amber and I hit the town on our last night in Vancouver

After taking these awesome trips with one sister, I kept thinking how cool it would be if all three of us were to travel together.  And so last December, I proposed we start taking a Sister Sojourn.  A trip just for the three of us, to go somewhere we’ve never been and do things we’ve never done. There are three simple rules for Sister Sojourn:

  1. No friends, no kids, no one else allowed (no offense intended)…sisters only
  2. No work, no conference calls, no computers, no stressing
  3. “WE CAN DO WHATEVER WE WANT TO DO!”

So on June 9th, the three of us left behind one husband (a very jealous husband at that), four kids, four dogs and a cat for the inaugaral, annual Sister Sojourn. Within the first fifteen minutes of our journey, we made up a silly cheer for Sister Sojourn…one that we haplessly screw up each time we do it…but one I’m sure you’d like to see!

We're ready for our first Sister Sojourn!

In Part 2 of this story, I’ll share many more details of our first adventures. In the meantime, I have two pieces of advice to share.

  1. Find your sojourn partner(s). Maybe it’s your sisters, maybe it’s your spouse or best friend from college or your next door neighbor. How do you know who your sojourn partners are? Do they make you laugh? Do they make you feel good about yourself? Could you talk to them for hours on end? Could you sit still in silence with them? If you can find someone you can do all of that with, then you’ll know.
  2. Once you’ve found your sojourn partners, plan a trip. Doesn’t have to be anything more than a quick weekend away. Maybe there’s an event you’ve always wanted to go to (the Kentucky Derby is on my list) or an interesting town you heard about in a magazine. Go there!

So, who is your sojorn partner? Have you ever traveled with your siblings? Have any stories to share? I’d love to hear them. Also, my sisters and I are making a list of places we would like to visit on our sojourns. Any suggestions?

Cheers,
Natasha





My Favorite Bed and Breakfast in Missouri!

22 09 2010

Cedarcrest Manor

Back in July, I discovered the most amazing Bed & Breakfast in Missouri during my girlfriend Angie’s bachelorette party weekend. We were looking for a quiet and quaint space for a group of girls to get together for girl time! Thanks to my friend Kris, we drove a quick sixty minutes north of St. Louis to find Overlook Farms, a family owned farm with two historic inns and a unique restaurant that serves dishes made with food from local farms.

So, twelve ladies in need of serious relaxation time descended upon Cedarcrest Manor, one of the historical inns. We were greeted with the most amazing homemade cocktails that had fresh mint, herbs and fruit from their gardens. Each of us gleefully found our rooms with amazing decor and furniture. First thing was first, so we enjoyed the sunlight by decadent poolside. Later that night we had hours and hours of giggle time playing fun games, drinking cocktails and picking on poor Chip (inside joke).

Overlook Farms was extremely hospitable in greeting us to their property; accommodating us when the town’s water main broke and we lost water in the house; and helping us celebrate a beautiful weekend and occasion. We happened upon Cedarcrest with hopes of a fun weekend and each of us left with full intentions of finding many more opportunities to return in the future!

If you’re looking for a beautiful place for a quick weekend getaway, check out Overlook Farms, www.overlookfarmmo.com and join their Facebook page to see amazing photos and hear fantastic stories!

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View from Cedarcrest Manor

Front porch of Cedarcrest Manor

Lovely pool and garden at Cedarcrest Manor

The Parlor at Cedarcrest Manor

Gorgeous second floor veranda overlooking the pool and garden





Cape Town is on the TOP of my list!

14 09 2010

It is official…Cape Town is my #1 favorite place to visit! After long consideration for the last couple of weeks, I’m very comfortable with this choice. I thought about all the qualities that I love to have in a place… 

  1. Easy to get around. Must have accessible, efficient and safe public transportation, taxis or roads.
  2. Easy to communicate. English lanugage is common and understandable. Skills in charades can only get you so far.
  3. Mountains and beaches. Don’t want to choose between the two, I want both!
  4. Good, international food. Always good to have international options in case the local cuisine is too much of a stretch for the pallette.
  5. Variety of activities. Museums, shopping, hiking, swimming, and more.
  6. Welcoming and friendly people. Nothing worse than being a foreigner in a place where foreigners are not welcome.

Cape Town has all of the above and more! This town at the very southern tip of Africa  will always have a special place in my heart since it is the first place I took my son (when he was 7-years-old) for our first family vacation. We had a great opportunity to go and visit with a friend so we went! It was the best experience for both of us. Luckily, I was able to return a few weeks ago, after an eight year absence and I was so pleased to see the city is only better than I remembered.

Row of beach houses in surfer town!

When I landed in Cape Town, I was greeted with a full rainbow over the parking lots. Really, what an amazing welcome sign! When Cameron and I were there in 2003, we counted 9 rainbows during our 2 week stay. Love it!

I would recommend renting a car during a visit to Cape Town, if you’re comfortable with driving on the opposite side as the U.S. I was able to drive easily to my hotel and all around the city and surrounding areas. Typically, rental car companies will give you an updated map and signs are well-placed throughout the area.

No matter where you go within the city of Cape Town, Table Mountain serves as a beautiful beacon of the city. We weren’t able to go to the top of Table Mountain during our visit as it was the one week of the year they close the cable cars for maintenance. Luckily I was there on my first trip and vivdly remember the beauty of the bay, the waterfront and the surrounding African hills.

Our group stayed at The Cullinan Hotel, a traditional style small hotel with amazing service located in the heart of the city. We walked to the waterfront for dinner one evening. While the city is welcoming, it does have crime like any city in the U.S. so it’s not recommened to ever walk alone or in under-populated areas.

Dining in Cape Town is quite a treat. You can find all types of international foods. That night on the waterfront, we ate at a fabulous Greek restaurant. The local cuisine includes very interesting meats. I had the pleasure of trying kudu and springboak, both tasty red meats much like steak. My very favorite restaurant is called Mama Africa. I happened to be there on my first visit and returned this time to see it still has the same vibrant energy and tasty, tasty foods. Another special treat of Cape Town is South African wine. If you enjoy a good bottle of wine, you can do no wrong here. My new favorite is called Pinotage, a special grape variety only grown in South Africa.

During my week stay, I was able to visit Camps Bay, a beach neighborhood that reminds me of Laguna Beach in California. It has a very similar relaxed, nature vibe. It has a gorgeous white sandy beach across from a row of chic boutiques and outdoor restaurants.

One of the things I love the most about Cape Town is that you get the mix of a metropolitan city within the natural beauty and culture of Africa. Make no mistake…Cape Town is not a rustic, bush-like representation of Africa. It IS a modern city that happens to be within a day drive to the most amazing natural scenery and animal habitats you can imagine. The very best of both worlds!

Self portrait at Chapman's Peak

At the end of my visit, I had one day to do what I wanted. As I had been to Cape Town in the past, I wanted to see sights that I had not visited before. So, I hopped in the car and headed toward Cape Point, famously the place where the Indian and Atlantic Oceans meet. The drive south along the western coast of South Africa is truly amazing and worth the drive, many times over. The first point of interest on the trek is Chapman’s Peak, at the entrance of Hout Bay. As you can see here, it was a gorgeous day even with the overcast moving in over the bay.

I was not able to go beyond Chapman’s Peak because I did not have cash or a local credit card. As I couldn’t get the Cape Point, I decided to drive over to the eastern coast of southern South Africa and see if I could make my way to Simon’s Town, famous for the penguin colony that lives along the coast among the city dwellers.

As I drove through hilly wine-country, I saw a sign that said “Watch for Baboons” and I was reminded of my first visit and the most striking memory that my son and I have…being chased by baboons. We had a close call when we got out of our car to take pictures realizing that a pack of baboons were running toward us. That is one memory we’ll never ever forget! Well, sure enough…I pulled up to a round about and a very, very large baboon was walking across the street like a common stray dog roaming a neighborhood in the U.S. What a trip! Luckily this time, I was already in my car and completely safe.

Soon after the baboon sighting, I happened upon the most adorable town that is clearly a big attraction for surfers. The 50+ surfers in the water was my first clue. Then I travelled a bit further and made it to my destination. In Simon’s Town, I followed the signs with characters of penguins and found Boulders Beach, where the colony is protected and paths are built for viewing. I must have taken 50 pictures of these adorable little guys, but this one here is my favorite.

As I walking back to my car, I heard a rustling in the trees on the path. After a closer look, I found a large dassie having a snack! On my first visit to Cape Town, Cameron and I had fun watching dassies on the top of Table Mountain. I have an amazing photo of Cameron squatting about 4 feet from a sweet little, curious dassie. Here, I was about two feet away and those teeth told me to keep my distance.

After my stroll with the penguins, I had a short amount of time to get to the airport for my departure home. I was headed north up the eastern coast when I notice a line of people taking photos in the bay. I was puzzled because there were no boats or anything going on…then I saw them! Three large whales were swimming in the bay. They were about 100 yards from the shore. I had no idea they ever got that close. I had to pull over and take pics. I was pretty far away and couldn’t get much but you can see the fins here sticking about the water.

Wow! As I drove east to the airport I found another amazing discovery. Along the roads, hundreds of calla lillies were growing wild, just popping up here and there…just like this one. So beautiful! What an amazing end to the trip! Just think…I took one day with a map and found penguins, dassies, whales, surfers, baboons, hills, beaches and more. Imagine exploring for a week in this incredible place. I really can’t wait to come back…this time with Cameron again! If you’ve ever thought that you’d like to go to Africa, come to Cape Town…I’m confident that you will fall in love like I have.

Bafana bafana!

Next: My favorite B&B in Missouri!








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